I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. Just like having children, you don't know what you have until you live it. I was going to be having leftovers of everything; time, energy, etc. Good to see that I'm not alone. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon.
It's a heart-wrenching story. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you. Just know what your getting into. These are nice people. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out. Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men.
We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that. Certainly not my husband. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you.
Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian. Love Notes for Him. Consider yourself above many things. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love.