I love him more than anything, but lately, the lack of real time together and the stress of his work impacting how I am made to feel like I'm on eggshells when we do get together almost seems like to much to bear. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. If she can accept me for who I am and what I believe, knowing that I'll never give her the eternal family she wants, then maybe we'll be ok. I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable. But, as someone posted earlier we did not marry a physician completely for the status and money, we also expect as should any wife love and respect. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with.
We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe.
He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. I believe strongly that I was meant to marry my spouse. To embrace each others needs and interests, it seems I am destined to long for this connection into eternity. One big question is, does he make you a priority when he has the time to be able to make something other than work a priority. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults.
It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. Does he come home on time after work. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple. We are fighting and he has no patience which I understand but its really hard to accept for me because I feel like I need more from him out of the relationship. Im not sure whether he isn't ready for it to get any more serious than it is or that he cannot juggle my needs and his duties.